Rescue Doesn’t Pause
Dixie & Lily’s return is a reminder that adoption is not the end of responsibility — it’s the continuation of care. Every horse deserves safety, dignity, and a tomorrow better than yesterday. Explanations don’t erase responsibility. Adoption agreements exist for this very reason: to protect the health and well-being of the horse.
When Rescue Doesn’t Pause
Animal rescue doesn’t fit neatly into business hours, weekends, or vacation plans. It reshapes what “time off” looks like, interrupts daily life when it’s least expected, and asks for everything you have to give. The cost of rescue is measured not only in dollars, but in labor, sacrifice, and love poured into every animal so they have a real chance to thrive.
It begins with veterinary exams, vaccines, dental care, and sometimes emergency treatment. It continues with farrier visits, carefully balanced feed, and training to prepare horses for safe, reliable partnerships with people. Most of all, it requires presence — showing up day after day with consistent care and trust-building.
A Reality We Hoped Would Never Come
We’ve all seen the stories: animals returned from homes that once promised forever — thin, withdrawn, broken down. Until now, that had never been our reality at Horse & Halo. But in an instant, it became ours too.
Dixie’s First Chapter
Dixie, a sweet twenty-something Quarter Horse mare, came from a place where meals were scarce and she had no person of her own. Yet from the beginning, she gave everything she had. She was the first to meet you at the gate, the first to step forward in training, the first to load into the trailer.
With time, her confidence grew, her body filled out, and her spark returned. She was ready for her next chapter. Her home was chosen carefully, with every reason to believe her future was secure. When Dixie left Horse & Halo, she was strong, healthy, shiny, and full of life.
The Call No Rescue Wants
Preparation was underway for a weekend away with a close friend when the message came: “She won’t gain weight.”
In a heartbeat, plans shifted. The truck and trailer replaced the SUV, and instead of a quiet weekend, there was a rig parked in the city for 48 hours, waiting for Dixie’s pickup. It stood as a reminder of how quickly “time off” halts when a horse is in need.
On Sunday afternoon, Dixie was met again. But the horse standing before us was not the Dixie who had left. Her weight was gone. Her spark was dim. Her spirit was tired. The explanation was almost casual. The sight was gut-wrenching.
Lily’s Return
Alongside Dixie, the decision was made to bring Lily home as well. Once a bright and affectionate yearling, Lily was now three. She greeted with the same sweetness remembered, but her care had slipped. She was overdue for vaccines, and her hooves showed the telltale signs of missed farrier care.
There were explanations. Life happens. But explanations don’t erase responsibility. Adoption agreements exist for this very reason: to protect the health and well-being of the horse.
The logistics weren’t simple — transport, boarding, paperwork. But the choice was. Supporters stepped forward, offering safe quarantine space. Veterinary appointments were quickly arranged for coggins and health certificates. Once again, community carried the weight of rescue.
Choosing Hope
Despite everything, there is still hope. Dixie’s heart remains as golden as ever. Lily still carries the warmth and sweetness that made her so loved. They deserve nothing less than the best, and the commitment remains to see them healthy, happy, and whole once again.
A Call to All of Us
Even in heartbreak, every animal deserves safety, dignity, and a tomorrow better than their yesterday. Dixie and Lily’s story is more than a rescue update — it’s a reminder for all of us.
For Volunteers: Your time, energy, and compassion are the backbone of success. Thank you.
For Rescues: Adoption is not the end of responsibility — it’s the continuation of care. Even when a placement feels secure, keep checking in. Small conversations can prevent crises.
For Adopters: Adoption is an ongoing responsibility. If struggles arise, reach out before it becomes a crisis. Staying connected is part of the promise.
✨ Together, we can ensure no animal’s story ends in silence. ✨
When Silence Speaks Loudest: One Horse’s Service, A Life Cut Short
Hank
Introduction
When Anna first reached out for help, I never imagined it would become the moment where I had to face that painful truth: you cannot save all the horses.
I’ve learned a lot through this experience—about the therapy horse arena, about how decisions get made, and about what those decisions cost. I also learned how many people in the community loved this horse. And I feel it’s important to share.
I want to be clear from the start: I do believe therapy programs are useful, and the program Hank belonged to has done amazing things for people in our community. Horses bring joy in so many ways aside from being ridden. However, in Hank’s case, the program fell short.
This is Hank’s story.
For years, Hank was part of an EAGALA-model therapy program, where the work is ground-based—no riding required. The EAGALA model recognizes that a horse’s value isn’t in how rideable he is, but in his presence, his behavior, and his emotional connection. Yet on Saturday, Hank was euthanized.
Anna Riding Hank
Did Anyone Try to Help?
The community has asked this question, and the answer is yes—it began with Anna. Anna, a former equine specialist for the program, shared a special bond with Hank and immediately stepped forward. She reached out to Horse & Halo desperate for help, determined to offer Hank options. With the support of caring community members, she researched his brands, contacted former owners, and quickly secured multiple safe retirement homes.
She also sent a respectful email to leadership—including the CEO, Director of Operations, and Equine Program Manager—sharing information that Hank’s reason for euthanasia was not life-threatening. In addition to her email, Anna had a phone conversation with the Director of Operations, again carrying forward a prior owner’s request—that Hank not be euthanized, but instead given a chance at rehoming.
Anna & Hank
No email. No phone call. Just silence.
At the same time, Horse & Halo reached out to the Equine Director in hopes of better understanding the decision and possibly offering resources. Again, silence.
That lack of engagement left many in the community wondering if every option had truly been explored—or if this outcome was, in fact, unavoidable.
No one was willing to listen. No one wanted to reconsider. Everyone was steadfast.
And I can’t help but ask: was this really for the horse? Or was it for the pocketbook? For convenience? For what? Because there were many options for Hank other than euthanasia.
The Value of Listening
Silence leaves space for doubt. Without dialogue, even the hardest decisions can feel like they were simply managed away.
The Weight Therapy Horses Carry
Like so many therapy horses, Hank carried a weight few people could see. He stood through sessions—sometimes up to four a day, five days a week—holding space for people’s stories, emotions, and healing. Outside the program, he was still ridden as recently as last Thursday. How do horses manage? Horses don’t just endure pressure alone; they instinctively reach for presence.
Emotional Support from Herd Mates
Hank and His Bestie
Research—and lived experience—show us that horses manage stress not by shutting it out, but by leaning into connection. Studies on social buffering demonstrate that the presence of a companion—whether another horse or even a calm human—helps horses regulate stress and recover more quickly.
In Hank’s case, this may have been his relationship with a fellow therapy horse, Ruby. Was she his trusted partner—the one he leaned on for comfort and grounding? Could his so-called “herd bound” behavior considered problematic have simply been instinctive self-care, a natural way to reduce stress and seek stability?
When horses show us who they need, it’s never a problem to be managed away—it’s a truth to be honored. Recognizing these behaviors matters. It allows us to advocate more effectively, to intervene earlier, and to create or seek out environments that truly support horses’ wellbeing.
When a Therapy Horse Might Need Retirement
Research and welfare guidelines highlight several warning signs that a therapy horse may no longer be suited for program work. These signs don’t mean a horse has failed—they mean the horse’s needs have changed, and it’s time to adapt with compassion.
Herd-Bound Behavior
Horses are deeply social. When they show anxiety if separated from a companion—pacing, calling, spooking, or refusing to work—it signals emotional stress. Studies confirm that separation distress can compromise both welfare and safety in therapy settings (McDonnell, 2021; Mad Barn, 2024).Weight Loss / Special Feeding Needs
Horses known as “hard keepers” may struggle to maintain weight even with good care. They often require specialized diets such as pelletted mash. Research on equine geriatrics notes that dental decline and metabolic changes make weight maintenance harder, often requiring retirement from heavy workloads (Ralston, 2018).Stallion-Like or Stud-Like Behaviors
Some geldings can still display stallion-like behaviors—protectiveness, reactivity, or heightened stress in herd dynamics. Welfare assessment protocols identify persistent stress or aggressive behaviors as indicators for reducing workload or retiring a horse (AWIN Welfare Assessment Protocol, 2015).Declining Willingness or Physical Condition
Warning signs include resistance, lack of energy, arthritis, dental issues, or chronic soreness. A 2021 survey of equine-assisted programs found behavioral concerns (44%), physical unsoundness (33%), and age (11%) were the most common reasons for retirement (Merkies et al., 2021).
It is alleged that Hank exhibited some of these behaviors over the past twelve months if so perhaps the cry for retirement went unheard—just as our plea did when we reached out.
Ethical retirement is not about return on investment. It’s about recognizing when a horse has already given enough, and making sure his final chapter reflects care, not convenience.
To Hank
To Hank—Shooter, Mr. Magoo—thank you for all you gave to this program. Healing didn’t come through riding, but through relationship. You mirrored emotions honestly, showing people the truth they couldn’t always say out loud. You walked away when boundaries were needed, and you returned when connection was safe again. You stood quietly while tears fell, and you shifted gently to invite laughter when it was most needed.
These are the gifts therapy horses give—gifts no human can replicate. Hank, you carried the weight of countless stories and breakthroughs, and you did so with grace.
For every life you touched, your impact will be remembered.
For Ruby
And to Ruby—Hank’s trusted companion—your place in his story matters. Horses form deep bonds, and Hank’s comfort in having you nearby is part of what carried him through his work.
We also know that herd mates feel absence. Research shows that horses often display stress or behavioral changes after the loss of a close partner. Ruby’s continued care and wellbeing will matter in the days ahead.
To the Community
Thank you for speaking up and asking questions. Your voices matter.
A therapy horse’s retirement future should rest on compassionate consideration of all they have given. They invest themselves in humans—session after session, year after year—without asking anything in return.
Could it be that when Hank’s usefulness was questioned—when he required more costly care and displayed behaviors that were simply labeled “unwanted”—his value was diminished. If so, this is where Hank was cheated: of a retirement, of an opportunity in a new environment, of a new way of life.
Horses are not disposable. Their value cannot be reduced to utility or cost-efficiency. The question is not whether they give enough—it’s whether we are willing to give back when their time of service is done.
References
AWIN Welfare Assessment Protocol. (2015). Assessment protocol for horses. Animal Welfare Indicators.
Mad Barn. (2024). Buddy Sour in Horses: Causes and Solutions. Retrieved from https://madbarn.com
McDonnell, S. (2021). Equine behavior and separation anxiety. University of Pennsylvania School of Veterinary Medicine.
Merkies, K., Ready, C., Farkas, L., & Riva, J. (2021). Retirement of therapy horses: Reasons and welfare considerations in equine-assisted programs. Animals, 11(12), 3556.
Ralston, S. L. (2018). Nutritional considerations for the geriatric horse. Equine Veterinary Journal, 50(5), 569–575.